IT’S ALL ABOUT HOW WE ORDER OUR LOVES

Daily Reflection – 10/1/2025

Sacred Scripture

As Jesus and his disciples were proceeding on their journey someone said to him, “I will follow you wherever you go.” Jesus answered him, “Foxes have dens and birds of the sky have nests, but the Son of Man has nowhere to rest his head.” And to another he said, “Follow me.” But he replied, “Lord, let me go first and bury my father.” But he answered him, “Let the dead bury their dead. But you, go and proclaim the Kingdom of God.” And another said, “I will follow you, Lord, but first let me say farewell to my family at home.” To him Jesus said, “No one who sets a hand to the plow and looks to what was left behind is fit for the Kingdom of God.” (Luke 9: 57-62)

Reflection

In our journey of faith, we often collect things along the way—possessions, ambitions, relationships, and expectations. We hold them close, believing they define us or secure our happiness. Yet, scripture and tradition gently invite us to consider a different path: the path of spiritual detachment. This isn’t a call to live an empty, joyless life. Instead, it is a profound invitation to find true and lasting freedom.

Spiritual detachment is the art of holding the gifts of this world with an open hand. It is the wisdom to enjoy life’s blessings without allowing them to become chains that bind our hearts. At its core, detachment is about ordering our loves. It means placing our relationship with God as the supreme priority, the fixed point around which everything else in our lives revolves. When God is at the center, everything else finds its proper place.

This practice cultivates a  powerful inner freedom. Imagine walking through life without the heavy burden of needing to control every outcome, possess every desirable thing, or have every person approve of you. This is the peace that detachment offers. It frees us from the anxiety of worldly clinging and the fear of loss, because our ultimate security is not found in temporary things but in the eternal love of God. By releasing our tight grip on earthly treasures, we find that our spirits become lighter, more resilient, and more open to joy.

So, how do we cultivate this liberating discipline? It begins with a turn inward and upward.

Through sincere prayer, we strengthen our love for God and receive the grace to reorder our attachments. It is in conversation with Him that our desire for His will grows stronger than our desire for our own.

Through honest self-awareness, we can look into our hearts and identify the “selfish clinging” that holds us back. What do we fear losing? What do we chase for our own validation? Recognizing these attachments is the first step toward loosening their hold on us.

By intentionally focusing on God’s will, we align our lives with a purpose far greater than our own plans. The goal is not self-denial for its own sake, but a joyful surrender that leads to authentic happiness. We “declutter” our hearts of excessive desires to make more room for Christ to fill us with His grace and love.

Ultimately, spiritual detachment is an act of trust. It is the belief that in letting go, we do not become empty. Instead, we create the space for God to fill us completely. It is in this open, trusting space that we find not loss, but liberation; not emptiness, but the fullness of a life lived in and for Him.

Prayer of The Day

Take, O Lord, and receive my entire liberty, my memory, my understanding, and my whole will.  All that I am and all that I possess you have given me. I surrender it all to you to be disposed of according to your will.  Give me only your love and your grace — with these I will be rich enough and will desire nothing more.” (Prayer of Ignatius Loyola, 1491-1556)

Daily Note

Little did the disciples know that they would soon become nomads on this earth, traveling all over, with no fixed home, living in often frightening and hostile circumstances, as followers of their Lord. But they — and we — were also pilgrims, because pilgrims do have a final destination, eternity with God.

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